Reasons for Arrogant thoughts

If you frequently think other people’s feelings and thoughts are stupid, it may indicate that you tend to devalue others’ perspectives and experiences. This can harm relationships and create barriers to effective communication and understanding.

There can be a few reasons why you might be thinking this way:

• Lack of Empathy: When you lack empathy, it’s harder for you to understand and relate to others’ feelings and experiences.
• Arrogance: Some people believe that their way of thinking is the only correct one and tend to think that other people’s thoughts and feelings are inferior.
• Insecurity: Sometimes, when people feel insecure about their thoughts and feelings, they may devalue others’ perspectives to feel better about themselves.
• Lack of exposure: People with limited exposure to diversity may struggle to understand others’ perspectives and label them stupid.

It’s important to remember that everyone has unique perspectives and experiences, which can be valid and valuable, even if they differ from yours. You can work on developing empathy and humility and trying to understand other people’s perspectives. You can also try to expose yourself to different cultures, people and ideas and practice active listening and open-mindedness.

It’s also important to remember that thinking this way is unhealthy and can negatively impact your relationships and well-being. If this is something you find yourself struggling with, it may be helpful to seek the help of a therapist or counsellor who can help you understand and address the underlying causes of this behaviour.

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Let Hurtful Thoughts Arise

There is new trend in society and between the gurus of personal growing.

They assert that in order to have a fulfilled life we should have about only positive thoughts.

I don’t think so.

I could be sound unpopular but to have a fulfilled life to have to face all aspects of your life.

And inevitably among these aspects there are hurtful thoughts.

And we need to face them, and when some new of it arises, it a good sign because it means we’re aware of your actual situation.

Original me

Clearly, it’s not enough having the desire to share opinions and ideas in this world.

You need to be more effective but how?

I know only a way: being truer possible.

But my reality is not aligned with the environment.

So I ask why. Am I crazy? Am I a misfit? Maybe. But I have original ideas that come from my own inside. They are seeds of my own way of thinking, my actual being.

And even if no one likes them, they are genuinely conceived.

I’m the original me; that’s enough. Other, I don’t wanna know.

At Our own pace

Who am I to force others to open their eyes? Or maybe better to force them to see as I see? Let life take its course in everyday existence. Everyone will open their eyes at the correct time. I will tell my opinion only if required or if strictly needed. But I will let people flow freely in the course of their own thoughts with less possible interference from me. No force, only freedom, life will provide walls to hit on, at the same time, rockets to go to the moon.

At the same time, I will provide the same to myself. I will let my thoughts flow freely without forcing them in no way.

Let’s respect everyone’s pace and the world will be a better place.