I know that is a best practice not to trust only words but to base our trust upon others’ actions.
It seems easy in words. However, when we try to apply this simple principle we found ourselves overwhelmed by nasty thoughts about how, when, and why to treat people.
So our fire door to escape from becomes our unextinguishable sense of selfishness ending up not trusting anybody ever.
But how can we succeed to have nurturing relationships with others without being exploited?
This is a mystery. What I know is that if you don’t trust anyone your life is highly miserable.