The Wrong Judgments

I think it’s time to postulate some thoughts based on my recent experiences.

Many people judge. And judge so easily by not giving them the time to people to explain or improve themselves.

Me too.

But we should know that even though judging is so easy, less easy is to correct our judgments or, better, understand that no judgment is correct.

We are equipped with a finite mind that never will be able to comprehend the vastity of any human being.

What we can do is vent upon something or someone unless it gives rise to a war.

For this reason, many people keep their judgements secret because they cause conflict and, above all, because they are usually limited and wrong.

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I unknow

It takes a lot of attention to evaluating how things actually are.

Perception is elusive, awareness rare, and the idea of the world volatile.

We cannot understand everything, so what should we pay attention to? It is too personal and subjective a question to be able to give a definitive answer.

Everyone has their own path.

I have decided to value what I feel and don’t suffocate it. I have the right to feel and think what I think. But this is true for me. For others, it may not be the correct attitude. Everyone must evaluate themselves. It takes a meta-cognition that allows us to distinguish it.

A path to knowledge could consist in destructuring what one knows until one reaches the point where the awareness of the wideness of own ignorance arises.

Reasons for Arrogant thoughts

If you frequently think other people’s feelings and thoughts are stupid, it may indicate that you tend to devalue others’ perspectives and experiences. This can harm relationships and create barriers to effective communication and understanding.

There can be a few reasons why you might be thinking this way:

• Lack of Empathy: When you lack empathy, it’s harder for you to understand and relate to others’ feelings and experiences.
• Arrogance: Some people believe that their way of thinking is the only correct one and tend to think that other people’s thoughts and feelings are inferior.
• Insecurity: Sometimes, when people feel insecure about their thoughts and feelings, they may devalue others’ perspectives to feel better about themselves.
• Lack of exposure: People with limited exposure to diversity may struggle to understand others’ perspectives and label them stupid.

It’s important to remember that everyone has unique perspectives and experiences, which can be valid and valuable, even if they differ from yours. You can work on developing empathy and humility and trying to understand other people’s perspectives. You can also try to expose yourself to different cultures, people and ideas and practice active listening and open-mindedness.

It’s also important to remember that thinking this way is unhealthy and can negatively impact your relationships and well-being. If this is something you find yourself struggling with, it may be helpful to seek the help of a therapist or counsellor who can help you understand and address the underlying causes of this behaviour.

The meaningless crisis

I’m going through a period where everything seems meaningless. What can we hold on to when life has no meaning? Many people find meaning in family, society, religion, science, and everything that can satisfy them personally. But personal and historical facts force me to think life has no meaning. And even though I have everything I need, this is a harsh personal situation.

Even the idea of God that in the past seemed to give me so much relief now seems like God, or it doesn’t exist or doesn’t care. Too many wrong things in the history of humanity have happened and are happening today. Neither the word of Jesus Christ, about unconditional love, which I strongly believed in the past, now seem so fake to me.

The personal relationships with people and beloved ones where I thought I could find meaning feel empty, fake and moved by interests.

How can I survive this period of meaningless crisis? I think I have no solution. Just survive for the sake of living. By my side, I will try to build meaningful connections and be authentic. This is all I can and want to do. Even though this means building anything at all.

A Sign

Today has been a particular day; a milestone has been set.

The old left to make space for the new.

And this is particularly true because a thought that used to torment me is now gone away.

At Christmas time, I have had reborn, and a new me is now set.

I knew this should happen, and it has happened.

This is a sign.

At the least, so I believe now.

The three states

What’s happiness?

As my mom told me, happiness is not uninterrupted, but it expresses itself occasionally and for short times.

But what am I when I’m not happy?

The only two states that come to my mind now are:

– troubled

– serene

Both have their own purpose.

– When I’m troubled, I always look for something and enter a creative/study zone.

– When I’m serene, I’m prone to rest and have a peaceful and transparent contemplation of the universe.

But what is the purpose of being happy?

When I’m happy, I have an explosion of trust, hope and faith. And everything I listen to, watch or read has a deep meaning. It is like I live in a universe tailored to me. And everything I do is a step toward the perfection of the universe.

Let Hurtful Thoughts Arise

There is new trend in society and between the gurus of personal growing.

They assert that in order to have a fulfilled life we should have about only positive thoughts.

I don’t think so.

I could be sound unpopular but to have a fulfilled life to have to face all aspects of your life.

And inevitably among these aspects there are hurtful thoughts.

And we need to face them, and when some new of it arises, it a good sign because it means we’re aware of your actual situation.